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Dating for older women and the people who are into them. No small talk, no games. Just someone nearby who wants what you want, and keeps it between you two.

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Look, we get it.

Everyone asks the same four things. Here are the straight answers.

What if someone I know sees me on here?

You're a username, not a name. Show your face when you feel like it, not before. Your business stays your business.

Do I have to give you my real name?

Nope. Make something up. Just be honest about what you're after.

Is this going to be sitting on my phone?

Only if you let it. It runs in your browser, so there's no app to explain.

Fine. What's it going to cost me?

Nothing to join, swipe or match. Want to skip the waiting? Spark is $9.99 a month.

Easy. Like trouble.

  1. 1

    Pick a username.

    make it a good one

  2. 2

    Say who you're after.

    be honest, it saves everyone time

  3. 3

    Swipe. Match. Make plans.

    the rest is your problem

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  • Chat once it's mutual
  • No real name needed
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Still wondering?

Older women, and the people who are into them. Single, taken, it's complicated. Everyone says what they want up front, so nobody wastes time.

Tinder wants you swiping forever. We'd rather you actually got somewhere.

Unlimited likes, and you see who's already into you. No more guessing. It's weekly, monthly or yearly.

Any time. No guilt trip. We know we're the wrong people to give one.

Go on.
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